Hi Vania I've found that the soul mirror work has also helped me notice how I *choose* these traits. An example would be how I'm not very confident when talking to new people (fear of rejection etc). Since I've been doing the mirror, and I've highlighted this trait to myself, I now actually see it as it manifests in my everyday life. I then get to take that opportunity to change - this time I'm not going to avoid talking to people, instead I'm going to go right up to them and start a conversation. Peace Jon Vania <vaniavladeva@...> wrote:Hi Vovin, Thanks for the thoughts, they were helpful. The reason I started redoing my mirror was because it was too general like you say. It could have been anyone's mirror because just writing down anger for example doesn't say much about my personality as such. So I'm trying to delve deeper and see how I personally relate to those "general" traits. It's quite interesting how that make you look at yourself subjectively and in a way disassociate from the self you are. It reminds me of the Tipheret self in the 8TM, I'm finding the soul mirror work very enriching. Best wishes, Vania --------------------------------- With Yahoo! Mail you can get a bigger mailbox -- choose a size that fits your needs [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]