Dear Horus, >From my personal & very limited experience of healing others, I always try to feel from the "Higher Self" Connection if I am allowed or not. If getting the "Yes", I am going. This can go as far as breaking down person unconsciuous resistances, but mostly the person is herself the one who is leading the healing, I am just helping bringing energy. >> and Is it alright to do this without her knowledge of it? But, before getting the "Yes", there is a basic : does the person want to be healed through me ? Illness and Pain belongs to each one, there is no right granted for anyone to take anything away from somebody else experience. In your case, does your friend ask for your help ? If not, there is little to be done, her experience belongs to her. Using your abilities for healing her without her knowledge and consents will be no good, for herself and for you. But whatever her answer, you can still talk to her and speak about her. This will also question your true motivation for helping her. This is the theory, but in real life, to my opinion, things are clearly different if illness are part of your Life experience or if you simply get an headache from yesterday going outside cold & rain without your umbrella. For the lattest, it is becoming just an energy issue. >From an intellectual standpoint, what you say about your friend clearly falls into the first category. Hope it helps, all the best Pierre Mikael --- In BardonPraxis@yahoogroups.com, Heru Re Horakathy <djhorus26@y...> wrote: > > I have a question for all of you, btw I think my introduction never got posted but, I am Male 28yrs old, Ive been praticing the Bardon books for well over six years now.. Im still not entirely masterd KTQ but I also go back and repractice many of the different sections of all the books from time to time.. My question is though, I have a friend of mine whom is a young female, she has had a very hard life, been abused and misstreated, and through such she has aquired a great many of Elemental and MENTAL Imballances.. She is a good soul in her heart, but she has huge problems in relating to the real world, and has no acceptable social skills, she also has a problem with telling lies to try and impress others.. I had a short affair with her which I hoped would last longer, as I can see her potential, but she felt something for me which scared her, so she decided to end the romantic part of the relationship.. My question is, do you have any suggestions as how I can effectively help cure > her of her Mental/elemental imballances using either KTQ or IIH?.. and Is it alright to do this without her knowledge of it? Thanks for all the input Ive really enjoyed all the comments thus far since Ive joined the group. > > Blessings to ye all. > > Lord Horus. > > > > --------------------------------- > Do you Yahoo!? > The New Yahoo! Shopping - with improved product search > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]