> I will visualize my goal as having already manifested but at > a "distance" from myself on the Mental Plane. I will then use > my Will to pull my visualization to me (and me to it). If I > have expressed myself clearly enough for you to see what I'm > getting at, does this seem like a reasonable approach? Yeah, as long as you take a moment to record how it feels to think FROM the goal, once you have merged with it. Remember your creative visualization and the emotional state of being IN the goal. The goal is no longer a goal, you are it. First mentally, then also emotionally. Keep bringing the memory of both feeling and thinking from the goal as often as you can. Thats not chasing the goal itself, but actually moving into being the person who has the goal achieved, which is then again, just another state of being. This can be very hard (and equally easy) to do, as you mention. Personally I find it difficult to summon the emotional state. As far as self improvement goes, I would look into working more with the soul mirror. This specific desire of having a bigger social circle stems from a higher desire, and that desire stems from a higher, and so on, all the way up to the specific element it originates from. With Bardon, working with the elements themselves towards equilibrium is a top->bottom approach, and imo brings about change faster than singling out specific desires. It does imply a big willingness to change though. >From Tantra Yoga, "According to the doctrine of the Tantra, the sorrow of life is caused by a bi-polar existence, a split of the one into two, because the truth of things is oneness and not the dual existence in any of its forms." So every desire, every personality trait, has an opposite, and to merge them within oneself is to ascend above it. To further divide them is to descend. Merging specific opposites can be done with a number of techniques. One way is to hold the mental and emotional state of DOing one thing, and simultaneously holding the mental and emotional state of doing its opposite. Or switching between the two as fast as the states can be summoned. >From Autobiography of a Spiritually Incorrect Mystic, by Osho "Just before the twenty-first of March, 1953, seven days before, I stopped working on myself. A moment comes when you see the whole futility of effort. You have done all that you can do and nothing is happening. You have done all that is humanly possible. Then what else can you do? In sheer helplessness one drops all search. And the day the search stopped, the day I was not seeking for something, the day I was not expecting something to happen, it started happening. A new energy arose---out of nowhere." Kindly, Severian