What helped me at first was you imagine this one thing and either make it move (your mind will find it difficult to have a static image) so have it get bigger smaller, spin, and such. Also you can thin kof stuff that is general as in love and think of things that have close connection with love and/or think of love around you in you spread to others etc. This has to be narrowed down eventually until its just love. This gives your mind a little breathing room and prepares it to hold the one thing. LVX Frater Draco "I shall not fear. Fear is the mind killer.I shall face my fear and let it pass through me!" -Frank Hebert --------------------------------- Do you Yahoo!? The New Yahoo! Search - Faster. Easier. Bingo. [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]