Dear Rawn, > There's an old saying that what offends us in others > are the things that > offend us within our own selves. When the behaviour > of others raises > our judgmentalism it means that we see the same > propensity in ourselves > but we'd rather not admit it so we look down on them > as a sort of cover > to hide what is also within us. Thank you for reminding me of this. If I stop and ask myself why I don't like someone's behaviour, I sometimes notice that person's behaviour is a mirror of my own. I understand that if everything was in order internally, then these issues wouldn't even come up. I just tend to forget :-). Your reply has helped me alot. I will meditate on this more. Sincerely, Allen __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Free Pop-Up Blocker - Get it now http://companion.yahoo.com/