Dear Newbie ~ > So my question is : does this make sense, and can I go ahead and > trust this type of answers? Ironically, what "choosing your own sun" might mean is that you should trust your inner light and guidance. In other words, the message might be not to look for others to verify your findings. Follow your own Tiphareth, so to speak! ;-) It is always kind of scary when the time comes to stand on one's own two feet and let go of the supporting hand. Thus the child's first steps towards Adulthood is as frightening as it is liberating! Well met Vovin / Rich