In a message dated 27/08/2004 20:59:34 GMT Daylight Time, rawnclark@... writes: >>> it's not a matter of impatience in such as case. Rather, it has to do with an egotistical need to show off and impress others which, of course, speaks of a deeper lack of self-worth.<<< I understand what you mean ... Perhaps the issue is as much self-doubt as self-worth... one could spend alot of time trying to light cotton swabs in private and it would be just as destructive, showing off to oneself alone! One could become desperate to do something impressive or prove oneself. Have to watch that.... thanks Jason [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]