Thanks for the explanation, Rawn. It was really helpful. Best wishes, Vania ----- Original Message ----- From: "Rawn Clark" <rawnclark@...> To: <BardonPraxis@yahoogroups.com> Sent: Monday, February 17, 2003 6:59 AM Subject: Re: [BardonPraxis] more soul mirror questions > Dear Vania, > > >> I've recently started re-doing my soul mirrors so that they include > different occurences of a personality trait and also root causes of > those > traits. So I'm wondering whould my new mirrors should include both the > 'cause and effect', in other words should I have both the rooth cause > AND > the resulting effects? Or should I only include the root causes? << > > The more information contained within your soul mirror, the better! I'd > say, include both if it pleases you and helps you to know yourself more > thoroughly. > > >> An interesting thing I have noticed while working on finding the root > of a trait, was that the majority of the root causes are either fears or > desires based on our likes and dislikes. Am I missing something, is > there more to it? I mean it's scary when I think that a person's > behaviour can be solely based on fears/desires. << > > Remember, this is your *un-consciously* formed personality. In other > words, this is not the result of *conscious* choices. > > >> Come to think of it fears/desires are all rooted in inctinct, so is > that the one root cause of our whole bahaviour? Is it instinct we're > trying to overcome and thus transform out personality? << > > Biological instinct does play a part but the root of most fear/desire is > cultural programming -- things we are taught to fear/desire. > > >> I'm wondering though, because the fear/desire thing applies to the > white mirror too, and so what are we to transform our personality into? > << > > With character transformation we replace our un-consciously formed > patterns of behaviour with consciously chosen, positive alternatives > that fulfill us. The personality structure becomes a matter of > conscious choice, over which we exercise a determing power, instead of > sub-conscious habit over which we have no power. > > My best to you, > :) Rawn Clark > 16 Feb 2003 > rawnclark@... > rawn@... > http://www.ABardonCompanion.com > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BardonPraxis > > > To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: > BardonPraxis-unsubscribe@yahoogroups.com > > > > Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/ > > >